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On self love: Why you should forgive yourself totally

So in our last episode, we came from this beautiful place of self acceptance.

We talked about how you can get to understand and then accept yourself wholly without any apologies.

Today we’ll be talking about forgiving you.

Yes. Self forgiveness is one of the things you’ll give yourself if you really want to set yourself free from the guilt of what you’d ignorantly did to yourself through out those days you didn’t understand your self worth.

You will have to forgive yourself totally of everything that happened to you notwithstanding who caused it.

Yeah. I know this is one of the most difficult part of it. Because you’ve failed yourself terribly. You’ve done bad things to yourself so much so that it becomes difficult to trust yourself to change.

You’ve let yourself down. And you’ve let others down too. But your mistakes are not part of the things that matters at this point. That’s the truth.

What matters is that since you’ve now understood and accepted yourself wholly, the next step you should take towards self love is accepting your mistakes as part of your growth process.

Quit looking at it as a major setback. Begin to see those mistakes as lessons that shaped your experience through that particular stage of your life. That’s exactly how i see mine. And it’s worked for me.

For instance when I look back at how far i would have gone if i didn’t fail at one time or the other, i get to realize i wouldn’t have stories to share. I wouldn’t have gotten all these experiences.

Indeed this part of my life wouldn’t be complete if the things that happened to me didn’t really happen.

So perhaps if that guy didn’t break your heart, you wouldn’t have been able to appreciate love. If you didn’t fail in your first business, you might not have realized a better way to do it.

So self love demands you see every experience and mistakes as part of life. Sift the lessons and let go whatever is left.

It means you accept and value your person including everything that makes you the person you’ve become.

It doesn’t mean you have to be proud of everything you ever did wrong.

…But you have to accept that those were the things that happened. And move on with life without blaming or absolving yourself.

When you really love yourself you realize that your shortcomings do not define you. And because of that you do not let anyone take advantage of you based on your mistakes.

Forgiving yourself totally is one of the greatest move you’ll make that will really heal you emotionally and get you fired up towards loving yourself the more.

I’ll be sharing more about this in our next post. Until then, stay winning.


Let’s talk about blogging with videosĀ 

Alright blogging with videos or vlogging is now the next big thing in the blogging industry. 

I’ve watched stars rise from vlogging. Seen major talk shows emerge from ordinary video sharing and so on. 

It’s quite amazing how humans respond to motion pictures. I think it’s natural for us anyway. We love videos. 

Perhaps while pictures speak a thousand words, videos speak hundreds of thousands. Lol. 

Ok. So besides seeing your written content, your readers aught to see videos of you talking about your stories. 
Does it even matter you ask. 

Yes it does. This is because people have different ways or should i call it different media of responding to stuff like lectures, tutorial and all that. 

For instance, personally i prefer audio. Stuff posted on audio format resonates a lot with me. 

That’s because i do multi task a lot. So while doing something with my hands, i can put up the audio there and just listen to it. 

I’m sure most of your blog readers are like me. They multi task. Or they’ll also want to try other means of getting to read your stuff like audio, videos etc. 

So why not get your hands on your smartphone or laptop and just create a video for your next blog post? 

Well, putting up videos on your blog and perhaps social media doesn’t just help your Search Engine Optimization effort, it brings in a whole new dimension to your narratives. 

As an added advantage, you can upload it on YouTube, Instagram and all em video sharing site. 

It’s the best way to eat your cake and have it.

Because you can make a video out of the same written post, publish it and spread it on all these platforms as a whole new post with optimum search engine results. 

I think i’ve said enough already. So you can now go and start making up awesome videos, add life to your narrative and watch your platform grow. Hahaha. 

Now watch my video below and tell me what you think. 

Welcome Victor Winners Journal version 2.0

This is to officially announce the launching of Victor Winners Journal, version 2.0.

I’m glad it’s finally happened. And even as i keep working to put everything in place, i want to inform you that i feel really safe writing here so you’re really going to enjoy some good time as i feed you with deep stuff, straight from my heart. 

I want to really thank you also. Thank you for standing by me through out this period I’d been struggling to get back what’s left of my site on the internet. 

I want to let you know that i deeply appreciate you. I’m blessed to have a fan like you. Yes. 

It takes effort to believe in people. And even more effort to believe in strangers. But here, you gave me your absolute trust. 

I really appreciate you. And i promise to do my best to stand right here with you even as we grow together.. 

Victor Winners. 

I didn’t realize Changing the world could be this cheapcheap

I didn't realize changing the world could be this cheap
Let me tell you the truth. 
I’ve so felt like leaving everything about website designing behind so i can focus on my writing and blog coaching. 

In fact considering that there’s nothing as sweet as the freedom of having a platform to express yourself and affect others positively, I’ve contemplated going back into full time writing. 

But again, the truth is besides writing and blogging, designing websites gives me so much joy. 

I don’t know. I can’t really understand why. The joy i see on my clients face each time a client gets his website online baffles me a lot. I always feel so happy inside of me. 

I believe that’s part of what we mean when we talk about adding value to other peoples’s lives. 

I think helping people expand their business, influence and reach new horizons on the internet is also my little way of changing the world.

Trust me, i never realized changing the world could be this cheap. Lol

I love what I’m doing. 

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